Robert and Ona Blaine Adams
"Life is eternal, and love is immortal, and death is only a horizon,
and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight."
The
lives of Robert and Ona Blaine were joined December 3, 1947 and
demonstrated that love is immortal and unconditional.
After nearly sixty years of life together, they crossed that horizon
just out of our sight; she on June 9, 2007 and he on August 30,
2007; and now together again across the horizon, as in life here on
earth, the immortal love lives on.
This page is a celebration of two lives that touched ours in so many
wonderful ways, we wanted to share them with others. As an
observer of Robert and Ona Blaine's union, I can say that their love
for each other is the epitome of what God intended between husband
and wife. And together they extended their lives and love to
their family and others who were fortunate enough to know them.
The
world is a better place for Robert and Ona Blaine having lived in
it!
Their children and family have given us permission to tell their
story in pictures which they provided. If you have
something you would like to contribute to this page, please email us
at the address at the bottom of the page.
A
complete obituary is on the "News
of the Family Page,"
and Robert and Ona Blaine's
personal page
has more information..
--Click on
pictures to enlarge.--
Robert
Vernon and Ona Blaine Adams
The
Young Years
The Younger Years
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Children and
Grandchildren
No
achievement ranked as high on their priorities as
spending time with their children and grandchildren whom they
supported in their pursuits and various activities and relished the
nearly daily visits from them.
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Robert
and Ona Blaine's Church
The
foundation of the marriage and family life of Robert and
Ona was their church, First Church of God in Neon.
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Lions
Club, Fire Department, Fleming-Neon Schools and
Other Civic Concerns
Robert,
supported by Ona Blaine, was responsible for getting eye
glasses to needy children. The first picture shows
him receiving an award from the Lions Club. They
were very supportive of the Neon Volunteer Fire
Department, as was their deceased son, Michael, and
their oldest son, Phil. Both were very civic
minded and supported their community and school
activities.
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Enjoying
Life
In
addition to their family, civic and church activities,
there was always a little time left for some good
fishing, a little golf, family outings and watching the cars race.
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Family
& Friends At Bob's Funeral
(If anyone has funeral pictures to share, please contact
me at my email below)
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Cousins' Tributes
To Phillip and Linda Carol
A Tribute to
Your Father
And My
Cousin
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picture to enlarge
ROBERT VERNON ADAMS
I do
not have the vocabulary to describe the influences, the
experiences with, and relationship I had with your Dad
and my cousin, Robert, but I will do the best that I
can.
Those experiences date back to our childhood when my Mom
would take my brother, Bill and me "over on Cowan" to
stay a week or so with PaPaw and Mam Ma Adams, with whom
your Dad and our cousin Robert was living. The times we
had together were nothing short of wonderful, from
swimming in the creek, swinging on grapevines to going
up on the hillside, putting pawpaws on a stick, slinging
the stick and watching the pawpaws fly off and splash in
Cowan Creek,
My
admiration of your Dad heightened with his enlistment in
the Navy in 1944, during World War II, and his return to
finish high school at Whitesburg and playing football on
the team coached by our Uncle Jody. l never forget how
much Uncle Jody thought of him. Even playing center,
Uncle Jody would have Robert call the offensive plays
while in the middle of the "huddle," leave the "huddle"
between the legs of one of the players, get over the
ball and then the rest of the team would follow.
His
influence continued as I entered high school at Fleming
with him watching and encouraging me as I played. Then
when I elected to attend Georgetown College, he kept
telling me I was good enough to play college football,
and me finally going out for the team "just to prove to
him I was too small." Thank you, Robert, for that
challenge.
After I returned from the Navy and started coaching
football at Georgetown College, his continuing words of
encouragement helped me so very much and his ability to
recognize high school players with college potential was
beyond compare. The number of talented players he told
me about and assisted me in convincing them to attend
Georgetown are innumerable; and he seldom missed a
Georgetown College game and always rendered words of
encouragement and assistance.
But,
most of al, my Cousin Robert was a true friend. His
positive attitude with his health struggle was an
inspiration to all who knew him. That same inspiration
continued even through the last visit my Brother Jim and
I had with him at the Veterans Hospital in Hazard.
My
family and I are and will be eternally grateful for your
Father’s relationship with us and his influence in
making this a better world for us and all in it.
Your
Loving Cousin,
~~Lester Craft~~
Lester, Jim and Bill Craft
Sons of Nat
& Valma (Adams) Craft
Excerpt from email to Phillip and Linda from another
cousin
"....take comfort in all the wonderful memories you have
of your dad and the loving recollections all of those
who knew him....He was a wonderful man and the one thing
I remember most about him is that beautiful warming
smile that was always on his face and that made me feel
like a special person every time I encountered him even
though I was just another little kid is his life."
~~Tom Crase~~
"Son of
Ewen & Wilma (Adams) Crase"
"Brother
of Selma, Marietta, Linda & Bill"
"And
family of a wonderful breed of Eastern Kentucky People"
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Excerpts from Madonna Sturgill's
column
"The New-Press"
(Wednesday, June 13, 2007 issue)
Ona Blaine (Quillen) Adams
Saturday, our church family and
community was saddened to hear
of the passing of our dear
sister in Christ and friend, Ona
Blaine Adams. Ona had
suffered with poor circulation
for several months and had her
leg amputated to her knee.
She went to Letcher Manor for
rehab, but never did heal
completely. She fought
back several times from
pneumonia and congestion, but
this last hospital stay made her
very tired. I visited her
Wednesday and Thursday and she
ate some, talked to her beloved
Robert by telephone and talked
to her family. Ona was
ready to go on home to be with
Jesus. Please lift Robert
up in prayer. The staff of
the Veterans Home brought him to
the church both night and it was
very hard for him. Sister
Ona had taken such good care of
Bob, till she was not able to
walk. Please pray for
Phil, Kathy, Allison and, Jon,
Michael, and Linda, James,
Robert and Stamper. Her
husband and family were her
world, and she gave so freely of
her love and time to all
of them.
The church was overflowing with
family and friends who loved and
were loved by Ona. She
treated all of us like family
and so many came by to pay
tribute to a wonderful Christian
woman. She loved God and
her church and followed his
command to love others as you
would have them love you.
Her life was about serving and
her mission was to see people
come to know Jesus as their
savior. Everyone who ever
came into contact with Ona,
walked away a better person for
knowing her.
At her memorial service our
choir sang two of her favorite
songs, Amazing Grace and Because
He lives. Brother
Charles Engle sang Sheltered
in the Arms of Love, Brother
Bernard Raper read her obituary
and shared scriptures and
memories. Dr. Sam Quillen,
Jr., her beloved nephew,
reflected on sweet memories.
Pastor Mark shared scriptures
and thoughts of Ona and Brother
Bob Rose shared scriptures,
thoughts and closing prayer.
Sister Ona would have been very
pleased with the service.
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Aunt Wilda Remembers Robert & Ona
Daddy's youngest brother, Jody, was more like a big
brother to Robert as he was growing up in Cowan.
After Robert's mother died when he was just months old,
our paternal grandparents took him into their home and
reared as their own.
I
recall Robert telling how he learned to swim in the
creek just down the road from the "home place."
Uncle Jody tossed him in the river and told him to
"swim." He did, and shared many happy times with
Uncle/brother Jody.
After Robert's death, Uncle Jody's wife, Wilda, wrote
some of the things she remembered about Robert and Ona.
She gave me permission to share them here. Uncle
Jody has been deceased for many years, but Aunt Wilda
now lives in Ohio near their daughter Judy and here
husband, Hunter Mullins, after residing in South Dakota
for many years near their youngest son, Will. They
have another son, Jody Len, who lives in Florida.
She is a remarkable lady! She was 89 years old
this past October, 2007, but very astute and writes
lovely letters.
Here is Aunt Wilda's story
Robert was still in grade school when Jody and I were
married, and he and I were always good buddies. My only
sister was the same age as Robert. She visited us
often, and we had rented Kelsey's (Robert's dad) place
and started our family. She and Robert were
friends.
Robert was 17 years old when he volunteered to join the
Navy. I wrote to him during that time, and by the
time he was discharged we had moved back to Hindman.
Jody was teaching there. As time passed we had
less contact, but always stayed in touch..
I
was pregnant with "what" turned out to be our second son
when Jody volunteered and joined the Army. Then
Kelsey sold his place. I rented a home in Hindman
and moved back there. I lived there until the war
ended and Jody came home. He got a job teaching in
the high school, and there we stayed until we moved to
Florida. That was a number of years, as Judy was a
junior in high school the year we moved. We moved
because our oldest son was sick, and our doctor thought
the rough winters in Knott County were too hard on him.
We were still living in Hindman when Robert and Ona
Blaine popped in one day and announced that they had
come to our house to get married. (Delores' note:
They were both 21 years of age, but were eloping!)
We were thrilled that they come to us, but the Methodist
church had a part-time minister, and he was away.
The Baptist Church minister was not available. My
grandfather who was an Old Regular Baptist preacher had
died. We ended up going to our county judge who
most graciously agreed to come up to our house and
perform their ceremony.
My mother, who was known for her cooking, made a lovely
wedding cake during the afternoon; so we pulled it off.
They were so happy "ever after." (Delores' note:
Robert and Ona's marriage was unmistakably a 'model'
marriage. I know of no other couple who were more
loving and dedicated to each other than they.
Their beautiful commitment lasted until their deaths.)
Ona Blaine knew how Robert felt about her, but I wish
she could have heard him talking to me about her.
"She was," he said, "the sweetest thing in the this
world."
I
am so glad to have had several weeks to call him (when
Robert was in the Veteran's Home in Hazard). We
had some laughs over things we each remembered, as well
shedding tears. I am glad that I had the
opportunity to talk with Robert after Ona Blaine died.
I treasure all our conversations.
A
very special thanks to Aunt Wilda for sharing her
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have pictures or stories you would like to share for this page,
please email me (button below).
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Through the Years
I can't remember when you weren't there
When I didn't care for anyone but you
I swear we've been through ev'rything there is
Can't imagine anything we've missed
Can't imagine anything the two of us can't do
Through the years
You've never let me down
You turned my life around
The sweetest days I've found
I've found with you
Through the years
I've never been afraid
I've loved the life we've made
And I'm so glad I've stayed
Right here with you
Through the years
I can't remember what I used to do
Who I trusted, who I listened to before
I swear you've taught everything I know
Can't imagine needing someone so
But through the years it seems to me
I need you more and more
Through the years
Through all the good and bad
I knew how much we had
I've always been so glad
To be with you
Through the years
It's better everyday
You've kissed my tears away
As long as it's okay
I'll stay with you
Through the years
Through the years
When everything went wrong
Together we were strong
I know that I belonged
Right here with you
Through the years
I never had a doubt
We'd always work things out
I've learned what love's about
By loving you
Through the years
Through the years
You've never let me down
You turned my life around
The sweetest days I've found
I've found with you
Through the years
I've never been afraid
I've loved the life we've made
And I'm so glad I've stayed
Right here with you
Through the years
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